Ask her out on a date..... Options

[Scary]

EDIT: Can you guys give any tips on asking a girl out?

This post has been edited by Selkie: May 1 2004, 06:36 AM

[usr.c]

hmm...You could go up to her and tell her just that. Worst thing that could happen is that you'd get a rejection, but if you have it in your mind that that's a possibility you should be alright.

Did that make any sense

[Scary]

Nope :'(

[j-rah]

How about this. Don't just go up to her and ask her out. She may already have a boyfriend. Talk to her and try and get to know a little about her, what she likes to do, interests, you know.
Or you could just ask her flat out like Ali said, she may go for that.
Good Luck.

[Stumpey]

Being an old boy with grey hair I learnt a long time ago play the numbers game if you ask a hundred one will say yes....lol

Happy days been married too long...................................

Steve

[snapplehooligan]

I have never been big into the idea of popping questions, I think the best approach is to develop a friendship and see where it leads. That way you get to know her better than you may think you do, and perhaps you won't want the friendship to turn into something more.

I think the best advice I can give is to not care too much. Maybe she will go for you, maybe she won't... neither is that big of a deal.

Cheers
Ryan

[Stumpey]

One thing is for sure we will never understand women and that is the only thing you will really know........

Steve

[j-rah]

I think the best approach is to develop a friendship and see where it leads.

Nothing against your reply snapplehooligan, but the only problem I had with this is after you've become friends that all they want to be, friends. (I know from experience)

Maybe selkie you should do what you want to do. Be yourself first off all. If she doesn't like that then she's probably not the right person for you. Or you could forget what I just said and talk to her a couple of times then ignore the f*** out her. A girl always wants what she can't have.

*Edit - Maybe you could get some of the girls on here to see what they have to say about your situation.

This post has been edited by j-rah: Apr 29 2004, 08:26 PM

[Anger Management...]

alright, since were mostly bona-fide nerds here, and ur asking the "she ALWAYS wants what she can't have", thats very, very true. im one of the LEAST popular people in my school and all, i got a semi-hot girl chasing me, she wont go for all the basketball/football players goin after her...

so, in conclusion "she wants what she cant have" that is so true (remember, talk to her a few times, seem like a nice guy, then ignore her mostly for awhile, talk, ignore, talk, ignore.... noticing a pattern? and finally when u have waited awhile, she will be in the palm of ur hand.)

[The Grand Piper]

Ok you like her so just ask her out. Don't say "will you go out with me" because it sounds like your asking her to marry you. What you do is just, if oyu know she likes you, go up to her or on the computer and say "hey, wanna go out sometime?"

Or something like that

[j-rah]

What you do is just, if you know she likes you, go up to her or on the computer and say "hey, wanna go out sometime?"

He's right, but I would stay away from asker her over the internet, I think that's something that should be done in person. Also, can you drive yet at all selkie, or possibly get around without having one of your/her parents taking you around when you go out?

[Hughesy]

Making friends is a good start but be too friendly and you get the "he's just like my brother" syndrome.

Self-confidence is imperative here and don't talk to her like shes an object or one of your mates down the pub

Be friendly then ask her out...... rejection is something we all deal with at some point and even if it doesn't turn out you'll be less worried next time, and you'll feel better for doing it, i.e. you won't get the "what if...." situation.

[The Grand Piper]

Yeah i agree with Hughsey. Don't get a "like a bro" relationship because you wont feel the same around her. I used to think this girl was hot and that could go with her anyday, but now i just cant do it. The only reason i said over the internet was, if a possible rejection was in play, the internet is, in my opinion, an easier way to cover up rejection unless youtell people.

[Scary]

Thanks alot guys! Although i'm still going to have to work up courage if i'm going to ask here out! Hughesy, i will take into consideration what you said about rejection, if i get rejected well at least i took a crack at it

[The Grand Piper]

No Problem Selkie Hope whenever you do ask her, it goes smoothly.


Yours, The Piper